Nepal is a country with diverse cultures, traditions, and identities. Among them, the Newar community can be referred to as one of the earliest pillars of Nepal's civilization. Nevertheless, in the present-day society, which moves at a high pace and is mostly dominated by modernity, a good number of people misunderstand Newar traditions, and as a result, they often call them "out of date" or "too focused on rituals and traditional dresses." This opinion disregards the depth of these customs.
To Newars, rituals are not just ceremonial acts; they are the fundamental principles that guide their lives. Rites, such as Ihi (Bel Bibaha) and Gufa (Bahra), are intended to shield and equip the girls both spiritually and socially. Moreover, Bratabandha (Kaeta Puja) for boys is the point where the notions of discipline, accountability, and social obligation are represented. These rituals serve as a means of providing a moral framework rather than following tradition blindly.
In the same manner, performing Mha Puja during Tihar imparts a valuable lesson that acknowledging oneself and being pure at heart is the key to a healthy life. Rituals such as Sagun are neat ways of giving love, blessings, and good wishes within the circle of family members. Even ceremonies for old-age such as Jya-Janko, not only celebrate long life and wisdom but also serve as a reminder that elders should be respected, rather than be neglected.
Moreover, traditional wear is one of those areas that are often misunderstood. For Newars, donning Haku Patasi, Tapalan, or Suruwal is not an act of following the latest trend. The main idea behind it is identity, history, ritual status, and community belonging. A large number of festivals, jatras, and life-cycle rituals are accompanied by the requirement of respective garments as a means of showing respect.
Putting on traditional clothes is also a deliberate step that goes a long way to ensure much-needed continuity of culture in a world where cultural globalisation poses a threat to the uniqueness of different cultures.
Indra Jatra, Bisket Jatra, and Gai Jatra are some of the festivals that not only bring people together for a joyous time but also serve as the living heritage. Among other things, they deepen village bonds, encourage the use of the cooperative through Guthi. Furthermore, they transmit morals from one era to another.
On top of that, keeping alive one's culture does not equate to completely turning one's back on modern life. Actually, it means having our roots alongside us as we move forward. When there are no traditions, identities become weaker. Being respectful towards the Newar culture does not only mean being respectful towards one community—it is tantamount to being respectful towards the total heritage of Nepal.
I believe this article would be an inspiration to those who read it, especially to the youth, to acknowledge tradition not as a liability, but rather as their strength, joy, and .